THE WAR
EXPLAINED TO A 9 YR OLD SON
A lesson
to a son:
The other
day, my nine year old son wanted to
know why
we were at war. My husband looked at our son and then looked at me.
My husband and I
were in
the Army during the Gulf War and we
would be
honored to serve and defend our country again today. I knew that my husband
would give
him a good
explanation.
My husband
thought for a few minutes and then
told my
son to go stand in our front living room window. He told him:
"Son, stand
there and tell me what you see?"
"I see trees
and cars and our neighbors houses,"
he replied.
"OK, now
I want you to pretend that our house
and our
yard is the United States of America and
you are
President Bush."
Our son
giggled and said "OK."
"Now son,
I want you to look out the window and pretend that every house and yard
on this block
is a different
country," my husband said.
"OK Dad,
I'm pretending."
"Now I want
you to stand there and look out the window and see that man come out of
his house
with his
wife and he has her by the hair and is
hitting
her. You see her bleeding and crying. He
hits her
in the face, he throws her on the ground, then he starts to kick her to
death. Their children
run out
and are afraid to stop him, they are crying, they are watching this but
do nothing because they are kids and afraid of their father. You see all
of
this son....what
do you do?"
"Dad?"
"What do
you do son?!"
"I call
the police, Dad."
"OK. Pretend
that the police are the United Nations and they take your call, listen
to what you know
and saw
but they refuse to help. What do you do then son?!"
"Dad, but
the police are supposed to help!" My son starts to whine.
"They don't
want to son, because they say that it is not their place or your place
to get involved and
that you
should stay out of it," my husband says.
"But Dad...he
killed her!!" my son exclaims.
"I know
he did...but the police tell you to stay out
of it.
Now I want you to look out that window and pretend you see our neighbor
who you're
pretending
is Saddam turn around and do the
same thing
to his children."
"Daddy...he
kills them?"
"Yes son,
he does. What do you do?"
"Well, if
the police don't want to help, I will go and ask my next door neighbor
to help me stop him,"
our son
says.
"Son, our
next door neighbor sees what is happening and refuses to get involved as
well. He refuses to open the door and help you stop him," my
husband
says.
"But Dad,
I NEED help!!! I can't stop him by myself!!"
"WHAT DO
YOU DO SON?"
Our son
starts to cry.
"OK, no
one wants to help you, the man across the street saw you ask for help and
saw that no one would help you stop him. He stands taller and
puffs out
his chest. Guess what he does next son?"
"What Daddy?"
"He walks
across the street to the old ladies house and breaks down her door and
drags her out, steals all her stuff and sets her house on fire and then...he
kills her. He turns around and sees you standing in
the window
and laughs at you. WHAT DO YOU DO?!!!"
"Daddy..."
"WHAT DO
YOU DO?!!!"
Our son
is crying and he looks down and he whispers, "I close the blinds,
Daddy."
My husband
looks at our son with tears in his eyes and asks him...
"Why?"
"Because
Daddy.....the police are supposed to help...people who needs it....and
they won't help....You always say that neighbors are
supposed
to HELP neighbors, but they won't
help either...they
won't help me stop him...I'm afraid....I can't do it by myself...Daddy.....I
can't look
out my window and just watch him
do all
these terrible things and...and.....do nothing...so....I'm just going to
close the
blinds....so
I can't see what he's doing........
and I'm
going to pretend that it is not
happening."
I start
to cry.
My husband
looks at our nine year old son standing
in the
window,looking pitiful and ashamed at his answers to my husbands questions
and
he tells
him...."Son"
"Yes, Daddy."
"Open the
blinds because that man....he's at your front door..."WHAT DO YOU DO?!!!!"
My son looks
at his father, anger and defiance in his eyes. He balls up this tiny fists
and looks his father square in the eyes, without hesitation he says: "I
DEFEND MY FAMILY DAD!! I'M NOT GONNA LET HIM HURT MOMMY OR MY SISTER, DAD!!!
I'M GONNA
FIGHT HIM,
DAD, I'M GONNA FIGHT HIM!!!!!"
I see a
tear roll down my husband's cheek and he grabs my son to his chest and
hugs him tight, and cries..."It's too late to fight him, he's too strong
and he's
already at YOUR front door son.....you should have stopped him BEFORE he
killed his wife. You have to do what's right, even if you have to do
it alone,
before......it's too late," my husband
whispers.
THAT scenario
I just gave you is WHY we are at
war with
Iraq. When good men stand by and let
evil happen
is the greatest EVIL of all. Our
President
is doing what is right. We, as a free
nation,
must understand that this war is a war of humanity. WE must remove this
evil man from
power so
that we can continue to live in a free
world where
we are not afraid to look out our
window
and see crimes on humanity.
So that
my nine year old son won't grow up in a world where he feels that if he
just "closes" the
blinds
the atrocities in the world won't affect him. Today the second day of "WAR
on IRAQ" I felt compelled to write this and pass it along.
Hopefully,
you will understand the lesson
my husband
tried to teach our son.
"YOU MUST
NEVER
BE AFRAID TO DO WHAT IS
RIGHT!
EVEN IF YOU HAVE TO DO IT ALONE!"
"BE PROUD
TO BE AN AMERICAN! BE PROUD OF
OUR PRESIDENT!
BE PROUD OF OUR TROOPS!! SUPPORT THEM!!! SUPPORT AMERICA!!
SO THAT
IN THE FUTURE OUR CHILDREN WILL
NEVER HAVE
TO CLOSE THEIR BLINDS...."
GOD BLESS
OUR TROOPS!!!!
GOD BLESS
OUR PRESIDENT!!!
GOD BLESS
YOU,
Author Unknown
I am proud
to say that being Welsh, we here in the UK also have become involved in
this war against terrorism to the Iraq people, and want our children to
also be able to look out of their windows and see freedom, knowing that
they would if the need arose be willing to fight for it
Gwen....This
was shared with me by my friend
Lynn